Sunday, June 21, 2020

An 1890 Silver Dollar

When I was about six or seven years of age, my dad gave me and my brother and sister each a silver dollar. The one he handed to me bore the date 1890. I don't remember what happened to the coins he gave my brother and sister, but I carried mine in my pocket. I liked the feel of it there, and took it out to inspect it several times a day. I grew to love that coin and carried it for well over a month.

One day my dad came down the stairs dressed to go out, and asked whether I still had the silver dollar. I confirmed that I did, and drew it from my pocket. He told me we didn’t have any money, but needed milk, and asked for the silver dollar. I obediently handed it to him.

Over the next few weeks, I missed the silver dollar, but learned a lesson: life goes on despite losing something that meant something to me. Soon I was caught up in the adventures that capture the imagination of a young boy, and forgot about it.

A couple of months later, it was Christmas. My brother, sister, and I opened our presents while sitting on the floor near the sparkling tree. Afterward we remembered our stockings. I reached into the one bearing my name, and pulled out a few small treats and trinkets that were like my siblings.

Then my dad told me I missed something in my stocking, and suggested I reach all the way to its bottom. I soon pulled out a coin--a silver dollar. I turned it over, and saw that the date was 1890. Further, I recognized the scratches on the coin's face, and realized it was the same one I had handed Dad months before.

It became apparent that after he had been paid, Dad returned to the store and bought back the silver dollar I had given him.

Many times small, seemingly insignificant things create lasting impressions, and so it was with my 1890 silver dollar. It was a wonderful Christmas. I no longer remember the presents I received that year, but will never forget the consideration, sensitivity, and thoughtfulness a dad had for his young son on that Christmas morning.

Thanks Dad

Your son, Roger
Stanley Hayes